Angels: Do You Believe?

guardian angelThe belief that God sends a spirit to watch over every individual was common in ancient Greek philosophy.  In the Middle Ages it was believed that the heavens and the stars and all of the cosmos were alive, full of angels and God.  In numerous faiths, angels are mentioned.  The word “angel” is derived from the Latin “angelus” and the Greek “angelos” meaning “one going” or “one sent,” also “messenger.”

Since the beginning of time, angels have delivered God’s messages to humankind. From a spiritual, academic standpoint, angelic messages were primarily intended to provide:

  1. warnings of impending danger
  2. instructions as to what to do in a particular situation
  3. information that angels are there to protect
  4. joyful announcements.

In metaphysics, angels are said to have great power and long to be made use of, desiring us to call on them to request assistance.  So in addition to requesting assistance from the angels, how might we know signs from them?

Signs that the angels are drawing close or making contact are said to include:

  •  unexpected, intuitive knowledge that comes to you
  •  an instant feeling of well being or love
  •  a warmth in your heart
  •  a movement of energy like a “breeze of light”
  •  a fragrance in the air like a presence
  •  soft strands of music that may linger as if floating in the distance
  •  a movement of material or physical matter (something is missing and then found)
  • appearance in the clouds of an image
  •  the sound of birdsong
  •  a dream in which an important feeling or message is given.

According to those who study angelic phenomenon and history, the most angelic signature of an angel, however, is the white feather!

Stay Healthy This Season!

snow flower 2While a healthy diet and adequate rest are beneficial in building your immune system, a number of natural ingredients can help you prevent or heal a cold should you get one.  I learned these ideas in trainings I have taken in healing and health.  Here are a few tips:

  • Get plenty of zinc in your diet (most often found in whole grains).
  • Pack your meals with foods that are rich in Vitamin C (for example, citrus fruits and vegetables).
  • Remember that caffeine is dehydrating, so if you are losing body fluids as a result of a cold, choose herbal, caffeine-free teas.
  • Drink fresh fruit juices.  Grapefruit, orange, and lemon juices are antiseptic and cleansing.
  • Eat soups, and drink plenty of water to keep hydrated.
  • Inhaling the smell of eucalyptus can soothe your respiratory system.
  • Adding garlic to your diet increases antibacterial action and builds your immune system to fight infection.
  • Honey can relieve sore throats and coughs.
  • Ginger made into tea is considered both an antiseptic and expectorant.
  • Echinacea and olive leaf can strengthen the immune system and shorten the bout of flu or cold.
  • Remember if at all possible to reduce your stress and to get enough sleep since it boosts your immune systems and allows you time to heal.

Here’s to your excellent health!

Symbols as Messengers in Everyday Life

798199-vintage-african-masks-tribal-zuluThe world abounds with symbols.  Some are universal and others unique to certain cultures.  Symbols are profound expressions of our intellect, emotions, and spirit.  A symbol can represent  deep intuitive wisdom that eludes direct expression, and symbols can be found in our dreams certainly, but also in our waking state.  It is helpful to observe the symbols in your life in your waking day, allowing the universe to speak to you through its symbolic language.

Throughout the centuries, symbols in their infinite forms have enriched people’s lives.  Cultures in all parts of the world have built upon a universal understanding of symbols to better understand well-being of mind, body, and spirit.  Often in deep spiritual work, we are asked to identify and focus on symbols that appear in our dreams and in our waking lives.  These symbols may, for example, appear in our drawings and over time become highly personalized, take on deeper levels of meaning, and come to help us express aspects of the psyche that may be difficult to put into words.

We find symbols in our daily life and in our dreams.  Here are some common examples defined:

Did you know?

 THE RIVER

Seen as a life-source, rivers carry potent meanings.  They can represent the boundaries between life and death.  In Hindu belief, rivers symbolize purification.

 ICE AND SNOW

Ice symbolizes coldness, rigidity, and stillness, both in humans and in nature.  Therefore, snow as a form of “softer” ice often expresses the return of life.  Snow can stand for truth and individuality.

MOUNTAIN

The meeting place of heaven and earth, the mountain symbolizes eternity and our ascent on our life’s journey.

 FIRE

Symbolizing passion and energy, fire can represent deep emotion, such as love, or alchemical transformation.

TREE

Wholeness, harmony, and family are reflected in the tree image.

 CAVE

When a cave is found in a dream state, it may mean that this is a time of initiation, truth, wisdom, or readiness for going deeper.

DOORWAY or WINDOW

Is the door or window open or closed?  Doorways and windows symbolize opportunity, opening, luck, and progress.  Have you heard the phrase–“a window of opportunity” or “the door to success”?

Pay attention to the symbols that occur in your dream state and also in your daily life.  Record patterns, spend some time journaling, and meditate on their significance as messengers in your life right now!

Heart to Heart

you&meMany books are written about relationships–how to attract the right partner, how to keep your partner, how to communicate with your partner, why your partner is not that into you, and so on!  The truth is that relationships can be complex and do require some attention if two people are to grow together into more intimate union and love.

Most often, instead of understanding relationship dynamics, people think that if they can just change this or that about their partners, their relationships would finally work.  Does this sound familiar?  We must know that no one is perfect nor to be blamed and following some common-sense guidelines can help you to improve your relationship.  They are based on effective principles of communication and should be practiced by both partners:

  • For starters, don’t expect your partner to satisfy all of your relationship needs.  Take good care of yourself.  Maintain healthy friendships outside of your primary relationship, and you will be less apt to feel that you need your partner to “complete” you.
  • Be sure to maintain a friendship as well as a love relationship with your partner.  Most couples who stay together do so because of a sense of friendship and respect that exists long after the romantic sparks might not be as bright.  Partners who are friends generally like and accept each other as they genuinely are.
  • It’s important to practice active listening. Sometimes all your partner wants you to do is just listen.  So listen carefully; then paraphrase back to your partner what you believe you heard him or her say.  It greatly helps to keep all communication clear.
  • Know that talking over each other or not acknowledging what we’ve heard causes monologues rather than dialogues.  And when you do listen and especially when you pick up what matters to your partner, you can ask about it at another time, making your partner know you did listen and that you care.
  • Know what you do want and communicate that clearly. We sometimes get stuck in repeating what we don’t want or like and don’t communicate clearly what we do want.  Instead of “it bothers me when you say that” try “I appreciate that you shared that with me in that way.”
  • Avoid arguments as a way of getting attention or engaging in drama.  Find a more productive way to be in relationship and avoid taking your frustrations out on your partner.  If your partner is doing that with you, have a conversation about how you feel–in a constructive way.
  • If you must disagree, do what is termed “fight fairly.”  The language we use during a conflict has a critical effect on our relationships.  Calling each other names and blaming each other will dissolve trust and respect faster than anything else.  And if this has already happened, you can commit to starting over now.  Remember “up until now”!
  • Commit to change.  Know that a healthy relationship is one that continues to evolve.  Establish regular conversations with your partner to be sure important issues are being addressed and understood.
  • Most of all, soften your heart. Sometimes, you have to rise above the current situation and look at the overall picture of your relationship.  How long have you been together?  What have you been through?  In what ways have you shared your lives and supported one another?  What might you do differently now?  Of all the tips, perhaps this is most important of all!

You can also set aside one “date” each week with your partner in which you don’t talk about the children (if there are kids), you don’t talk about work or about money, the house, etc., but you talk about each other.  I have suggested this to clients who have done this.  I remember a client telling me that she and her husband looked at each other and had nothing to say at first on that “first date.”  The good news is that they stayed committed, though, to that date each week.  By the second week, they started talking about what mattered to them, sharing some of their hopes and dreams as well as fears.  –Or as she put it, “getting down to some deep inner stuff.”  Over time, it greatly improved their connection.

All in all, we came into this world to learn to love and to know that we are love.  Nothing is perhaps more powerful than heart connections.

 

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